Living in the Tension

Living in the Tension

Today, I’m truly reminded of the brevity of life. On September 10, 2022, my best friend, Brad, was killed in a motorcycle collision (with a moose). As I read today how Jesus challenged us to consider the lilies, the grass of the field and the birds of the air, I began to see what I had never previously seen from the many times I have read or referenced these words.

“Look at the lilies and how they grow. They don’t work or make their clothing, yet Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as beautifully as they are. And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and thrown into the fire tomorrow, he will certainly care for you. Why do you have so little faith?”

Luke 12:27-28 NLT

“Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?”

Matthew 6:26 NIV

When Jesus refers to lilies and birds in Luke 12/Matt. 6, I have always felt reassured and comforted but today, I felt unsettled. My concentration in these verses has always been on the comforting truth that we need not worry because God values and cares for us even more than the birds or the lilies. However, as I pondered the next phrase about the flowers that are “here today and thrown into the fire tomorrow,” I realized its solemn truth about the brevity of life.

Continue this same truth about birds for a moment. Earlier this year, we were with our grandchildren in downtown Ottawa. Walking past a large glass building, we couldn’t help but notice several dead birds on the concrete walkway. Their lives had been cut short by having flown into the glass windows.

While reading today through a study called “Wisdom Over Wealth,” this statement was most sobering to me: “Jesus isn’t saying the birds are protected from all harm.” The fact is we pray for the Lord’s protection over our lives and Jesus clearly instructed us, “Do not worry about your life” (Matt. 6:25). We are not to live in fear but we are to live in this paradox.

We visited with Melinda this summer (Brad’s widow) and chatted about how often people speak of the Lord’s protection. I truly struggle in the conundrum of why God allowed Brad’s life on earth to end at such a young age. He was having such an impact for God’s kingdom. Jesus does provide a response as we live in this tension, even though it may not be the one we wish to hear:

“But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it.

Matthew 10:29 NLT

The fact is we often face death or illness or circumstances in life that we simply cannot understand. Jesus, by His words, is inviting us into this tension: enjoying God’s provision while accepting life’s brevity.

Jesus was confirming that we are like the birds and the flowers – we are made of the same stuff, the dust of the earth. Please don’t miss the fulness of what Jesus was saying. We can be people who can trust the Lord for and live in His provision; but we are also called to trust Him when the sparrow falls to the ground – He knows and He sees.

The year 2022 was “Come Home Year” in Newfoundland – we bought a mug with that title as a souvenir. That mug is now a solemn reminder of Brad and the year he went Home.

I love this quote from the Faith & Finance Study: “We can live more freely once we get more comfortable with the inevitability and unpredictability of our own death.”

Remembering His Words

Remembering His Words

I always remember the words I have often heard my grandfather, Arch Woodworth, quote as he would testify in church: “Be not weary in well-doing for in due season you will reap if you faint not.”

I didn’t have to look up this Bible verse because I heard them multiple times, more than I can count. He probably was not even aware that I was listening, but his words quoting the Apostle Paul of course, have stuck with me. I often quote them myself because they still encourage to me today!

I remember them only because I heard him quoted it at the end of pretty much any testimony he shared. It makes me wonder how my grandchildren will quote me. What am I passing on to my children and grandchildren?

The best example of a father has to be our Heavenly Father. He made sure that His Son knew He was “well pleased” with Him. The timing of this message is important. It was sent at the baptism of Jesus before He had even performed any miracles or accomplished anything of eternal significance. The Father was simply saying, I’m proud that you are my child and you are on this earth.

I wrote about this on Father’s Day in 2020 and have made an effort to reach out to my kids every Father’s Day to send them a message from their Dad.

If you are a father, reach out to your children and let them know that you are “well pleased” with your child(ren), not because of what they may have accomplished, but because hearing that from you will mean more than you may ever realize.

Happy Father’s Day!

An Eye Exam

An Eye Exam

I recently had an eye exam and there was no significant change in my prescription. This reminded me of the words of Jesus in the famous Sermon on the Mount. I googled the verse of interest and immediately received this AI generated overview:

The Bible verse “If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light,” is found in Matthew 6:22. It essentially means that if your mind and heart are focused on good things, your whole life will be filled with light and positivity. If your “eye” (representing your inner self) is not focused on God, the truth, and good things, your whole life will be filled with darkness. 

Is Your Eye Healthy?

That certainly seems to be a reasonable explanation, but is that really the extent of what Jesus was saying here? To fully understand, might I suggest we need more SI (Spiritual Insight), since AI (Artificial Intelligence) has its limits. Maybe a quick look at the context of this verse might give us a clue.

Matt. 6:20 talks about treasure and the places it can be stored (heaven or earth). The next verse connects our heart with where we place our treasure. Inserted here are two verses about having a healthy or clear eye vs. an evil or unhealthy eye which results in darkness. This is followed by the reference to two masters and the inability to serve both with the simple conclusion: “You cannot serve God and money.” Then, the instruction to not worry about the things needed in life, like food and drink and clothes – some of the things we purchase with money.

With this context in mind, why does Jesus speak about the eye being good or evil, bringing light or darkness? Could the health of the eye be a reference to our attitude about our financial resources?

Is Your Eye Envious?

This is not the only time Jesus referenced the eye. In Matthew 20, He spoke about “the kingdom of heaven” being like a landowner who hired workers for his vineyard. These individuals were hired at different times during the day – some early morning, others at 9 am, others at noon, then others at 3 pm and more at 5 pm. At the end of the workday, the workers were called to receive their pay, “beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first” (v. 8). Naturally, the people who worked the entire day expected to be paid more than those who started work at 3 or 5 pm and this led to complaints.

The story concludes with a few questions:

“Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with what is my own? Or is your eye envious because I am generous?”

In this story, Jesus was illustrating that the darkness on the inside of these workers was due to a desire for more (an amount above the original agreed amount). All day these workers knew what they were going to be paid but this focus shifted when they saw that others who worked less were being paid the same (meaning their hourly wage was less than those hired later). There was an immediate discontentment when they compared themselves with people who were hired 8 hours later. Comparison is the enemy of contentment.

Let’s assume you or I were hired at the start of the day – would we be any different? If we worked 10 -12 in the day and others worked only two hours, it would be natural to expect more pay, wouldn’t it?

Is Your Eye Clear?

The point Jesus is making here is that the eye is not clear and greed enters the heart through our eyes. How would you define greed? Maybe it’s as simple as the desire for more. AI says it is characterized by a strong, often selfish, yearning for more than what is needed or deserved. Greed is often associated with materialism, envy, and a focus on self-interest. 

Here’s how Tim Keller spoke about the eye and greed:

Greed is different than other sins. This is why Jesus says this is an eye sin. This darkens your eye spiritually. Jesus did not say to anybody, “Watch out, you might be committing adultery.” If you’re committing adultery; you know you’re committing adultery. You don’t say, “Oh, you’re not my wife!” It doesn’t happen. But Jesus has to say, Watch out, you might be greedy. Greed hides itself. It blinds you in a way that adultery doesn’t. Over the years as a pastor, I’ve had people come in to talk to me about sins, but I don’t remember anybody coming to me to confess the sin of greed.

https://www.plough.com/en/topics/faith/discipleship/watch-out-you-might-be-greedy

It’s such a challenge to recognize this darkness or even know it has found a place in our hearts. In fact, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jer. 17:9)

Jesus said that “from within, out of the heart proceed …” a long list which includes coveting and envy (Mark 7:21, 22). The word envy is literally “an evil eye.”

Tim Keller explained how easy it is for us to not even consider the possibility that we might be materialistic with this realistic example:

Materialism has the power to get you to choose a job, not one that you love, not one that you’re good at, not one that helps people, but one that makes you money. You do it because it will get you to a certain status in life. You choose the job on the basis of that. For five to ten years the adrenaline can keep you going, but after a while you find yourself empty inside. Why did you choose the job? Your eye was dark.

https://www.plough.com/en/topics/faith/discipleship/watch-out-you-might-be-greedy

Is Your Eye Focused?

When your eye is dark it is easier to refuse to help someone who has a genuine need (Deut. 15:9) than to truly have compassion and help them. Our response to others is determined by what is in our heart and Jesus is saying the entrance into the heart is through the eye. The instruction in the verse that follows is pretty clear:

Give generously to the poor, not grudgingly, for the LORD your God will bless you in everything you do.

Deut. 15:10 NLT

So what did Jesus mean when he spoke about a clear eye? It wasn’t just focusing on good things (as AI suggests), so your life will be filled with positive things. It was about having the right perspective – shifting your focus away from greed and discontentment which is the darkness. Instead, the light brings generosity and contentment into view. A clear eye means we view the resources we have differently, we begin to ask why we have these resources.

The “evil eye” focuses on getting more while the “good eye” focuses on giving more.

Let me wrap this up with Proverbs 22:9:

“He who is generous will be blessed, For he gives from his food to the poor.”

The newer translations just use the word generous here, but that word refers to one who “has a good eye” – the KJV translates it as one with a bountiful eye.

Consider this in light of what Jesus said:

“When your eye is healthy, your whole body is filled with light.”

The healthy or “bountiful eye” speaks of generosity that flows from an abundance mindset and is not restricted at all by scarcity thinking.

Do You Need Corrective Lenses?

In a 2012 study published in Science, behavioural economists Mullainathan and Shafir discovered something remarkable:

When we perceive scarcity (even if it doesn’t match reality), our brain undergoes a measurable shift. Our mental bandwidth narrows, focusing intensely on what we might lose while becoming blind to potential gains.

https://breakingbank.media/ca/breaking-the-scarcity-cycle-a-guide-for-smarter-wealth-management/?ref=sadeyemi&utm_source=email&utm_medium=email+marketing

This confirms what the Sermon on the Mount stated more than 2000 years earlier:

But when your eye is unhealthy (perceiving scarcity), your whole body is filled with darkness (your mental bandwidth narrows). And if the light you think you have is actually darkness, how deep that darkness is!

A scarcity mindset negatively limits our ability to be generous, which is a dark place. Lord, open our eyes to Your light and deliver us from the dark. For my physical eyes, I need corrective lenses and I use them every day. Do we not need the same discipline to wear our spiritual lenses daily? How else can we have “a bountiful eye?”

Who to Trust in These Times

Who to Trust in These Times

It seems that everyone is talking about President Trump these days. Some are fearing what seems to be inevitable now – a recession, while others see Trump’s aggression on Canada as a threat to its sovereignty as a nation. Politicians are searching for ways to negotiate or strike back against the imposed tariffs. There are more questions than answers, right now. One thing is certain, things have become extremely uncertain.

As Christians, we often quote this very familiar verse about trust from Proverbs that says “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” At times of uncertainty like our world is facing right now, the tendency is to lean more on ourselves and try to understand, which is not real trust. My experience tells me it is much easier to say “I trust the Lord,” but much more difficult to really live a life trusting Him. The tendency is to lean and begin to trust what we understand.

“Trust Me”

Canada is in the middle of a leadership transition and therefore, not in a strong bargaining position. In the coming days, each of these leaders will try and position themselves as the best person and the best party to stand for the interests of Canada. In essence, they are saying, “Trust me.”

It’s difficult to understand what the end game might be for President Donald Trump in regards to Canada. It is also a challenge to determine who can be trusted most to lead Canada through these challenging times. Maybe our focus is completely wrong. Maybe this is the perfect opportunity to trust God!

The fact is this: when we do not understand, we can so easily spiral into anxious thoughts about our future – job insecurity, higher cost of living, etc. When we focus on our understanding or lack of understanding, the result is the same which is the opposite of rest.

Trust Yourself

Compare Proverbs 3:5 to a much less familiar verse in Proverbs that uses a similar word for “understanding:”


Do not wear yourself out to get rich;

do not trust your own cleverness (emphasis mine).

Proverbs 23:4 NIV

The pursuit of wealth is so easily connected with an individual’s own cleverness. The NASB says we should not exhaust ourselves to gain wealth; in fact we should “Cease from the consideration (or understanding) of it.” What exactly are we to cease from? Surely the instruction is not to stop considering how we ought to earn income, after all, we are also instructed to provide for our family (1 Tim 5:8).

It’s pretty clear: Proverbs instructs us to seek wisdom and understanding (Prov. 4:1-9). Consider King Solomon who had the unique opportunity to ask God for anything (1 Kings 3:5) … his request was to have an understanding mind. “And God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding beyond measure” (1 Kings 4:29). God not only gave Solomon wisdom, but also added an extra bonus by giving him what he did not ask for: “both riches and honour” (1 Kings 3:13). So he was granted wisdom and wealth, but the choice before him is the choice we all must make: where to lean.

Consider the Source

Clearly, Scripture is teaching us that the source of wisdom and understanding matters. When we look at Solomons’s life and leadership we can see how he drifted from the source of wisdom.

It’s far too easy to think we are the source of any wealth we have accumulated and lean on our own cleverness for more wealth. Where we lean affects our heart, often without us even realizing it. Maybe that’s why the Israelites were reminded to remember that the Lord your God gives you the power to gain wealth (Deut 8:18).

In the same way, political leaders around the world can naturally lean on their own understanding or cleverness to resolve issues that affect millions of citizens. Take a look at these verses as it relates to the King of Tyre:

Your wisdom has certainly made you rich, because you have storehouses filled with gold and silver. You’re a clever businessman and are extremely wealthy, but your wealth has led to arrogance! Ezekiel 28:4-5 CEV (Emphasis mine)

When one possesses wealth and wisdom and sees themselves as the source of what they have, it can lead to arrogance and pride.

When you set your eyes on wealth, it is [suddenly] gone. For wealth certainly makes itself wings Like an eagle that flies to the heavens. Do not eat the bread of a selfish man, Or desire his delicacies; for he is like one who is inwardly calculating. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.

Proverbs 23:5-6 AMP, 7 ESV

Why would someone who is trying to impress you by offering a meal be “inwardly calculating” the cost of that meal? Maybe it is because when someone sees themselves as the source of this wealth, it is natural to think about how much this generosity costs.

Trust the Lord

When you recognize that any wealth you have is from another source other than yourself, you begin to understand that you are a steward, therefore you are not the true source. Then, where you lean shifts to the true source of the wealth (Deut 8:18). At this point, our own ability to gain wealth shifts to a source that is much great than ourselves.

This is a significant heart shift – this shift means that what we “treasure” also shifts (see Matt. 6:21) because our heart now has a different focus – one where giving is a greater priority, greater than the cost of generosity or how this amount will be replaced. The heart of the steward has trust in a higher source than their own “cleverness” to generate wealth. The steward has clarity about money that was previously missing: wealth is now seen as a tool rather than just a resource to be stored.

The End Game is trust!

The Secret to Growing Your Business

The Secret to Growing Your Business

In the past several weeks I have had multiple conversations with self-employed entrepreneurs who have expressed the urgency to focus on growing their business.

I completely understand the urgency and have been in the exact situation myself ​- fully focused on growing the business with little time for anything else. ​Based on my own experience, as long as my sole focus remained on growing the business, I was working hard and striving for success. I was doing all the right things like marketing myself, networking, asking for referrals and in general, working hard. None of these are really secrets to success, are they? They are simply the necessary elements we would immediately think about and without implementing, success would be extremely unlikely. All of these efforts gave me only a measure of success as a financial advisor.

However, it was only ​when I focused on ​incorporating God into my business that I truly came to reach a level of success that I desired and at a rate of growth that I had never thought possible. In the last 5 years that I was a practicing advisor, my business grew by more than 1200%.

As I look back, this business success happened only when I began to invest some of my time away from the typical business opportunities. I started a training course that gave me a different perspective, namely that God was more interested and involved in my business success than I realized. Somehow, I was convinced that my own efforts had brought me this success, but then again, I wasn’t the first to come to that conclusion. God reminded the Israelites how He fed them manna and cared for them in the wilderness because He knew they might want to take the credit for their prosperity.

You may say to yourself, “My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.” But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today.

Deut. 8:17-18 NIV

Despite this verse being underlined in my Bible, it was far too easy for me to emphasize the part I played in this success, and in so doing, diminish the role that God played in it. Sure, my ability played a part, but who gave me the ability? While my training, education, sales skills had to be developed, ultimately it was God who had positioned me in this role to start with. He had opened the opportunity to be trained in this field and I certainly would not have chosen this path on my own.

The global financial crisis of 2008/2009 was a time of profound soul searching for me but was very pivotal in my journey. It led me to a deeper study to earn my CKA® (Certified Kingdom Advisor®) designation which helped me understand God’s activity in my business.

The result: first, surrendering the ownership of my business to Him, then second, my striving diminished as He grew the business. Maybe that’s exactly what John meant when he said, “He must increase but I must decrease” (John 3:30).

For the record, the S&P 500 did increase in value from 2010 – 2015 by 92%, so this does account for some of the growth in business. The remaining 1100% growth that occurred in less than 5 years is much more than I could have ever accomplished unless I decreased and He increased.